White Robed Monks of St. Benedict
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Your Wedding through the White Robed Monks

Those experiencing religious differences with their institutional church of origin, those entering into a second marriage, and others without a particular religious affiliation will find openness and acceptance with the White Robed Monks of St. Benedict. Here are some of the most frequently asked questions about the White Robed Benedictines and our marriage services.

Are any preparations or classes required?
Your marriage represents a change in how you see yourself and your relationship with others. Marriage (Pre-Cana) preparation courses and individual counseling can help. We encourage you to take time to prepare yourselves and will assist you as time and distance allow. Your marriage will work only if both of you are committed to making it work. Ideally, the priest would like to meet with you at least once before the ceremony.

Will my marriage be recognized by the Catholic Church?
If you mean "the one, holy, catholic and apostolic church", the answer is "YES". If you mean the Roman Catholic Jurisdiction within the Catholic Church, the answer is "NO".  The White Robed Monks of St. Benedict are not affiliated with the Roman jurisdiction of the Catholic Church.

What legal issues will we need to address?
To be legally married, you will need to have a license from the county clerk or the state department of registration for the place in which the ceremony will occur. After the ceremony, the priest will make sure that your license is signed and sent to the appropriate agency. He will also provide a marriage certificate for your more immediate use.

What must I do to have a priest from the White Robed Monks of St. Benedict officiate at our wedding ?
The first step is to contact us by completing a Marriage Petition Form. This will allow us to find a priest closest to you and begin a dialogue with you on your wedding. Ideally, we would like to personally meet at least once with a couple. When this is not practical email and telephone conversations may substitute. Your priest will work with you to discuss marriage and help you plan your wedding.